Today for the n millionth time in my life I told a friend of mine; “he’ll figure it out eventually”.
Looking back, in the early days when I said it, I had believed that I figured out some of the things that these men were doing wrong but often despaired over the things I hadn’t “figured out” yet. Now a days, I feel like I have figured out as much as I am ever going to “figure out”, and with this knowledge comes the realization I don’t want it.
On one hand this is a daunting prospect with great challenges and pitfalls. On the other, it grants me the freedom to just be. This is a decision every man, and woman, most make. Is it worth it? and for the majority the answer is yes. Yet there is a small number of us, a very tiny majority, whose calling lies on path that’s best traveled… freely.
